I probably could predict how often people to me and many others make it their one and only argument or criticism. And while at times it can stick out like a sore thumb, in the cases where I am guilty (or not guilty considering I have a fucking learning disability in the 1st place) of it, I don't recall once when pointed out, it ever made what I wrote any effective in communicating. In fact in some cases it probably was MORE effective. Why I say that is if it does stand out and someone responds, obviously I got their attention. Perhaps for more than one reason.
And the people who seem to go out of their their way doing this
a) obviously don't know me. know anything about me. and I suppose would have no fucking clue that I do have a learning disability, and really couldn't care less if my grammar isn't 100% book-taught. It's not like I'm being paid to write am I? Last time I checked, I wasn't.
does it bug me when my grammar isn't perfect? I would be lying if I said no, but I don't..ya know let me grab that thing I wrote.
I write a lot of things in here without proofreading them. Or only
briefly proofreading them. Why? Having to spending long chunks of time
proofreading is not the point of a or this blog. The point of this blog is to
communicate. Spending a large percentage of the time proofreading
is an unproductive use of my time. The communication and dictation
is still being done not matter how (close-to) perfect the spelling
and grammar is. And if there is anything that is significant enough
to improve communication and the kind of content for dictation, then
editing it later on when I can is the best and most convenient way to
do that.
I mean it's not like I'm being paid to do this, or even being published
anywhere else, lol. Jeezus.
I guess I could just quit writing. Not swallow any pride. Admit I have a grammar problem. But if I do that, then I see it as these nazis getting under my skin. Although I hardly would have a problem with quitting, at least on the boards. The blog is mine. Nobody controls anything in there but myself. But rateyourmusic, last.fm, imdb, okc, etc I could just never post again Lol, I could put down I have a grammar disability. I would love to message or im, but I fear my grammar will show me in a bad light. So I would only care to talk on the phone or meet in person.
Seriously, that actually sounds like something worth trying. Man, women are picky. But at least some of the one's I've run across over the last few days aren't flaky. That's better, but in some ways doesn't help me anymore save for knowing they are picky going-in. They say I'm "not their type"or "not a match"..I'd like to know what women I "am their type" or "a match" that I am interested in as well. But as I've said many times, I suspect she doesn't exist.
